looking for input for strange situation

sky_at_peace's picture
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I have recently been spending time with an awesome girl for whom I have quite a crush. The time we share is always really rewarding.

Last night after a great evening, she and I fell asleep on a bed in the living room next to a window.

At 3 in the morning I awoke out of the blue. My eye caught movement at the window, just as a face rose to peek inside the room.

We made direct eye contact. He even spoke to me briefly before bolting. "hey, whats up *run*"

I carried my lady friend into her bedroom, and stayed awake and alert with the dogs ready to defend the house and the people inside.

Close to 5 in the morning she and I both awoke to a banging on the outside wall. She knew what was going on. An ex-boyfriend with a history of harassment. Twice we called the police and each time he hid only to return and continue banging.

Close to 7 She, the dog, and I left to my place for a safe spot to rest into the late morning.
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What would you do!? Of course I was entirely ready to pin this guy or choke him out. I volunteered to go outside and catch him, but respected my friend who didn't want that escalation.

Instead I stayed silent and indoors, ready to defend the home and residents from intrusion.

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You made the right choice. See if you can get an officer to swing by the guy's house and give him a talking too. Whatever you do, don't ever chase after him. You never know what he has waiting for you. If he ever wants a piece of you so bad that he tries to break in, then he's fair game.

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Crazy chicks date crazy dudes. Red flag from hell. It's always easier to fall for a cute friend who's a tad emotionally needy 'cause they're so adorable. Be warned!

ونحن جميعا الكتب من الدم ، وعندما أردنا فتح نحن الحمراء.

sky_at_peace's picture
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i really value your input guys. thanks dray, thank bulleteater.

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I wish you the best. Beware of drama, it can lead to stuff you shouldn't have to deal with. She better be cute!! It always seems like incredibly hot girls are just extremely bratty and super cute girls have baggage.

ونحن جميعا الكتب من الدم ، وعندما أردنا فتح نحن الحمراء.

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